Chat Rooms
How can I make it safer?
Setting things up…
- Explain to children that online chatting needs to be adult-supervised. Don't allow children to communicate in unregulated chat rooms.
- Know children's login information and email addresses. What username or character names has the child given her/himself? Does it provide identifying characteristics about her/him or her/his hobbies (e.g. shygirl, bookworm, etc.)?
- Monitor children’s webcam use and any posting or exchanging of pictures online.
- There should be a time every evening where all technology is shut down. For children with laptops with built-in webcams in their room, either remove the laptop from the room or make sure the laptop is closed.
Important discussions to have…
- Discuss with children how the Internet is a public place.
- Explain to children that pictures should not be sent or posted online without parental permission. Once sent, control over what happens to the pictures is lost.
- Reinforce the idea that not everyone is who they say they are online. People can pretend to be older or younger than they actually are.
- Explain to children that they should trust their instincts and block or ignore someone if the individual is asking questions online that seem "weird" (i.e. questions about puberty, sex, etc.).
- Talk about friendship: what it is and isn't.
- Explain to children that it's illegal to threaten someone, and that they should tell a safe adult if threatened online.
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