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How can I make it safer?

Setting things up…

  • Explain to your child that online chatting needs to be adult-supervised. Don't allow your child to communicate in unregulated chat rooms.
  • Know your child's login information and email addresses. What username or character names has your child given her/himself? Does it provide identifying characteristics about her/him or her/his hobbies (e.g. shygirl, bookworm, etc.)?
  • Monitor your child’s webcam use and any posting or exchanging of pictures online.
  • There should be a time every evening where all technology is shut down. If your child has a laptop with a built-in webcam in their room, either remove the laptop from the room or make sure the laptop is closed.

Important discussions to have…

  • Set the expectation that you will monitor your child's online activities, as the Internet is a public place.
  • Explain to your child that pictures should not be sent or posted online without parental permission. Once sent, control over what happens to the picture is lost.
  • Reinforce the idea that not everyone is who they say they are online. People can pretend to be older or younger than they actually are.
  • Explain to your child that s/he should trust her/his instincts and block or ignore someone if they are asking questions online that seem "weird" (i.e. questions about puberty, sex, etc.).
  • Talk about friendship: what it is and isn't.
  • Explain to your child that it's illegal to threaten someone, and that s/he should tell a safe adult if threatened online.
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