Instant Messaging (IM)

How can I make it safer?

Important discussions to have…

  • Discuss with students how the Internet is a public place.
  • Explain to students that pictures should not be sent or posted online without parental permission. Once sent, control over what happens to the pictures is lost.
  • Reinforce the idea that not everyone is who they say they are online. People can pretend to be older or younger than they actually are.
  • Explain to students that they should trust their instincts and block someone if the individual asks questions online that seem 'weird' (i.e. questions about puberty, sex, etc.).
  • Talk to students about friendship: what it is and isn't.
  • Explain to students that online chatting needs to be adult-supervised.
  • Explain to students that it's illegal to threaten someone, and that they should tell a safe adult if threatened online.
  • Teach students about adding friends only if they have already met them in person (i.e. exchanged email addresses over the phone or in person with friends).
  • Teach students that if they come across something or someone that makes them feel uncomfortable, even if it seems to be coming from a friend, they can tell you without fear of losing computer privileges.